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Jul 4, 2025

Dating Problems Aren’t Always About Strategy—They’re About Psychology

Jul 4, 2025

If you’ve read all the dating tips, downloaded every app, and feel like you’re doing everything “right”—but still find yourself stuck, frustrated, or hurt—you’re not alone.

Jul 4, 2025

Jun 6, 2025

If You Don’t Set Relationship Principles, Anti-Principles Will Run the Show

Jun 6, 2025

Most couples don’t actively decide how they want to treat each other. But here’s the problem: if you don’t create relationship principles on purpose, anti-principles will take over.

Jun 6, 2025

May 30, 2025

What Am I Doing Wrong? I'm So Frustrated With My Dating Life

May 30, 2025

If you’ve ever stared at your phone, replaying a confusing message—or no message at all—and thought, What am I doing wrong?, you’re not alone…

May 30, 2025

Dec 16, 2024

Getting Through The Holidays Unscathed

Dec 16, 2024

While the happiest time of the year it may be for some, unfortunately, the holidays can also bring up a lot for many of us. Whether it's visiting family, getting pulled into old roles and dynamics, the stress of traveling or shopping, the pain of isolation and loneliness, or conflict arising in partnerships and families... Here are some tips on how to manage and get through it with a few less bumps and bruises.

Dec 16, 2024

Nov 19, 2024

Re-pair (Repair) Your Relationship

Nov 19, 2024

When partners are “paired”, like Bluetooth devices, they are connected. When there's a problem, partners get disconnected and they need to re-pair. It usually takes a minute. Here are the most important guidelines for re-pairing (repairing) injuries.

Nov 19, 2024

Nov 8, 2024

What is falling in love?

Nov 8, 2024

Falling in love in our culture is a very powerful romantic ideal. For better or for worse, it has informed our ideas about relationships, and what they should look like, what we should expect and how we go about finding a partner.

Nov 8, 2024

Oct 21, 2024

Why You Shouldn't Wait For Major Problems To Try Couples Therapy

Oct 21, 2024

Let’s relabel couples therapy as something like relationship training. I mean it seems obvious to take some sort of training in anything you want to do halfway decently. Why not do that with one of the most important things in your life, your relationship, family, or marriage?

Oct 21, 2024

Oct 13, 2024

3 Spiritual Psychology Tips for Dating

Oct 13, 2024

Have you ever wondered why, even after learning dating tips and reading dating books, you keep ending up in the same laundry cycle with dates and relationships? Here are a few dating tips from a Spiritual Psychology point of view.

Oct 13, 2024

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Apr 18, 2020

The Science of Attraction: The Chemistry of Physical Attraction (How Important Is It?)

Apr 18, 2020

Imagine yourself sitting in a coffee shop with one of your friends and you catch a glimpse of the person who walks in. You just can’t help but notice how attractive they are. Do you ever wonder what’s really going through your head during those moments?

Apr 18, 2020

Mar 14, 2020

7 Essential Elements of a Healthy Relationship

Mar 14, 2020

Here are a few essential elements of every happy relationship. You and your partner might approach them in your own unique way, but if you’ve been feeling like something is “missing” in your relationship, it could be on this list!

Mar 14, 2020