Why are we sometimes drawn to people who can't give us the relationship we want? Explore how familiar patterns and fears of intimacy can influence attraction.
Why are we repeatedly attracted to certain kinds of people? Your Attraction Template can help reveal the patterns, experiences, and relational dynamics that shape who feels compelling to you.
Our childhood experiences can influence who we’re attracted to in ways we may not consciously recognize. Understanding these patterns can help us become more aware of what draws us toward particular people.
Why do certain people create such powerful chemistry? Sometimes what feels like attraction may also reflect familiar relational patterns operating outside our conscious awareness.
There are moments in dating and relationships where you get stuck. You get triggered. Something gets said, done, or neglected…and suddenly, you feel it. You feel the contraction inside, the shutting down–or the spark of fire. These are places that need our attention and we can learn to work through them with less negative consequences—to us and others.
Chemistry, on its own, is a surprisingly unreliable guide when it comes to building a healthy, lasting relationship. Most of us were never taught how to tell the difference between chemistry of genuine connection and chemistry of nervous system activation. And in modern dating culture that distinction matters more than ever.
