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Bart Hatler, MFT, San Francisco, California

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Little Lessons On Growing Love

San Francisco’s Best Advice About Creating Amazing Relationships And All Things RELATED

Bart Hatler
January 15, 2020
Dating

Dating in the City vs. Dating in the Burbs: Pros and Cons to Looking for Love Outside of San Francisco

Bart Hatler
January 15, 2020
Dating

Life in San Francisco seems to move at a mile a minute. The idea of going on dates with a couple of different people over the course of one weekend and bouncing between several social gatherings on a Saturday night seems pretty normal.

Bart Hatler
January 8, 2020
Dating

Romantic Relationships Are NOT the Key to Happiness! -- 5 Ways to Be Happily Single

Bart Hatler
January 8, 2020
Dating

When you’re single, you might find yourself looking around and seeing nothing but happy couples. But is romantic love really the pinnacle of happiness? Here are five ways to be happily single and embrace the art of flying solo.

Bart Hatler
January 1, 2020
Dating, EFT

Dating Intelligence: How Knowing Your Attachment Style Could Be an Advantage

Bart Hatler
January 1, 2020
Dating, EFT

Your attachment style describes, predicts and makes sense of how you relate to others in dating and intimate relationships. Here’s how knowing your attachment style can help you find the right person.

Bart Hatler
December 27, 2019
Dating

What’s Your Dating Intelligence Quotient (D-IQ)?

Bart Hatler
December 27, 2019
Dating

Do you know how you score on a D-IQ (Intelligence Quotient for Dating) test? Here are some basic dating tips to help you with your D-IQ. 

Bart Hatler
December 27, 2019
Couples, EFT

Holiday Stress Survival Guide: 6 Practical Tips for Protecting Your Relationship

Bart Hatler
December 27, 2019
Couples, EFT

When tensions are running high during the holidays, you might take out your frustrations on your partner, or you may notice that they’ve been doing the same to you.

Bart Hatler
October 23, 2019
Dating

How to Overcome the Brutal Realities of Online Dating Anxiety

Bart Hatler
October 23, 2019
Dating

It seems like everyone is giving online dating a shot these days. This can cause anxiety. Whatever it is that makes you nervous, here’s how to deal with the anxieties connected to online dating.

Bart Hatler
October 20, 2019

Navigating the Crazy Dating Scene in San Francisco: 3 Reasons You Need a Dating and Relationship Therapist

Bart Hatler
October 20, 2019

Although San Francisco is a vibrant, bustling city, it’s also a uniquely difficult place to find a long term partner.

Bart Hatler
October 10, 2019
Dating

Dating In SF: How to Find True Love...Not Just Sex

Bart Hatler
October 10, 2019
Dating

Forget running into a special someone at the grocery store or meeting in line at a coffee shop. Everyone out here is busy swiping left and right on Tinder, Bumble or The League! Here’s how to find true love in SF, Silicon Valley and anywhere in between (not just sex).

Bart Hatler
September 7, 2019
Dating

Information-Age Dating App Irriatations: Consider the Pros and Cons

Bart Hatler
September 7, 2019
Dating

Sure, dating apps are convenient. But, sometimes, it seems like these apps can make the modern dating scene even more complicated. Here’s a breakdown of the pros and cons of dating apps.

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Bart Hatler
September 1, 2019
Dating

Dating As a Career-Driven Professional – The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Bart Hatler
September 1, 2019
Dating

Being a career-driven person might make you feel like you have to choose between your job and your love life. Here’s the good, the bad, and the ugly of modern romance for career-driven professionals.

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While the happiest time of the year it may be for some, unfortunately, the holidays can also bring up a lot for many of us. Whether it's visiting family, getting pulled into old roles and dynamics, the stress of traveling or shopping, the pain of isolation and loneliness, or conflict arising in partnerships and families... Here are some tips on how to manage and get through it with a few less bumps and bruises.

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When partners are “paired”, like Bluetooth devices, they are connected.  When there's a problem, partners get disconnected and they need to re-pair. It usually takes a minute. Here are the most important guidelines for re-pairing (repairing) injuries.

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Falling in love in our culture is a very powerful romantic ideal.  For better or for worse, it has informed our ideas about relationships, and what they should look like, what we should expect and how we go about finding a partner. 

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Why You Shouldn't Wait For Major Problems To Try Couples Therapy
Oct 21, 2024

Let’s relabel couples therapy as something like relationship training. I mean it seems obvious to take some sort of training in anything you want to do halfway decently. Why not do that with one of the most important things in your life, your relationship, family, or marriage?

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Oct 13, 2024

Have you ever wondered why, even after learning dating tips and reading dating books, you keep ending up in the same laundry cycle with dates and relationships?  Here are a few dating tips from a Spiritual Psychology point of view.

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Apr 18, 2020
The Science of Attraction: The Chemistry of Physical Attraction (How Important Is It?)
Apr 18, 2020

Imagine yourself sitting in a coffee shop with one of your friends and you catch a glimpse of the person who walks in. You just can’t help but notice how attractive they are. Do you ever wonder what’s really going through your head during those moments?

Apr 18, 2020
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Mar 14, 2020
7 Essential Elements of a Healthy Relationship
Mar 14, 2020

Here are a few essential elements of every happy relationship. You and your partner might approach them in your own unique way, but if you’ve been feeling like something is “missing” in your relationship, it could be on this list!

Mar 14, 2020
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Mar 7, 2020
What Does Your Enneagram Type Have to Do with Your Relationship?
Mar 7, 2020

Wondering how your personal enneagram type is affecting your relationships? Trying to figure out who you are most compatible with and how to improve your love life?

Mar 7, 2020
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Feb 29, 2020
The Happiness Effect of Social Media
Feb 29, 2020

Social media has totally revolutionized this concept and made it possible for us to stay readily connected with loved ones every single day. How can this affect you?

Feb 29, 2020
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Feb 9, 2020
The Science of Attraction: Exploring the Chemistry Behind Romantic Allure
Feb 9, 2020

Should chemistry be the all important factor we have made it out to be when looking for a partner? Here's what’s actually happening in your brain during the attraction phase, when you’re spending time with someone that you just can’t stop thinking about.

Feb 9, 2020
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